Never underestimate the power of a note.  A quickly scribbled post-it can have as much effect as a carefully planned out sonnet.  Whether it’s love, lust or a little of both you’re after—remember that the pen is mightier than the sword (or in this case chocolate, flowers or jewelry but do feel free to keep those coming too please).

Just think of all the dirty little things you can fit onto a simple square of paper.  Add in the bonus of being able to self stick to just about anything and you should really be getting excited.  Why not remind your honey that they are the taste you prefer.  Let your lover know that you’ve been very bad and are in need of a spanking.  Or simply let them know that you’ve got less on under your clothes than the size of the note they’re holding. Entice your partner.  Let them think of you when they find the note.  Let them get excited.  And best of all, they will know that you thought of them and got excited too.

Have fun with it.  Send a dirty text in the middle of the day.  Write a suggestive email (to a private account please not a work one unless you like to live dangerously).  If you’re out to dinner or at a bar, use the napkin to sketch out a tantalizing thought or image.  Go to bed that night wearing nothing but a post-it directing them to exactly where you want their attention.

It doesn’t have to be kinky or x-rated.  Simply letting someone know that you love them is a message with staying power.  It touches the heart and boosts self-esteem.  All that warm and fuzzy goodness will make them feel sexier, and will warm more than just their heart.